The Problem With Men or Women is that......

I remember the day when our Health teacher asked us who are better, men or women. Actually, I do not know which of the two sexes is better because each plays a different and important role in our society. Men as practiced are the one responsible in supporting his family. In other words he should find job fit for him and a job with enough salary. But women nowadays can also do this things. But one thing a man can not do is... to give birth. But they also contributes on giving birth to another individual. Now let us go to the exact side of this post. What is really the problem of men or women? I know it is difficult to answer especially if you did not have any chance to interact with the opposite sex. But for me it is just easy. I can even name more than one problem of each sexes. I know some of the problems of the two sexes because I am close to both sexes. I will just mention one problem with men or women, problems which I think the most important to tackle.


One important problem with men is that they know how to hide what they really feel. Even though it is already obvious that they are carrying something heavy inside, they can still manage to hide it and keep it just with themselves. They can be "plastic" if they want to. Because they know how to hide their feeling they seldom cry. That is one thing I do not like about them, they seldom cry. It is really unfair to us women. Some say that a man is not man if he cries. So what if a man cries. What is wrong with it? There are many ways in showing our feelings but the easiest thing to do is cry and tell your friends what you really feel. But I understand that men are really to hideous of their feelings. But I am glad that not all men are hideous. I have boy friends who are always ready to tell what they really feel.


Let us now go to the problem with women. I will just mention one problem with them. If the problem of men is that they are too hideous to show or say what they feel, A women in the other hand is to showy in showing what they feel. They are not cautious in telling somebody what they feel. They end up very frank and therefore hurting somebody. They end up hurting somebody because they are not afraid to say what they feel about certain things especially on what they see.
In other words girls are over reacting in even just a simple matter. I am not saying that I do not have this characteristic. I admit I am one of the girls who are too frank. I had even experience quarreling someone because of my frankness. But what can I do, this is the real me and I think I can not change this anymore. Same as the boys who find it hard to show their feelings to anyone or anybody else.