WHy So EArLy?

In this age of modernization, many teenagers have already engaging in relationships, specifically, boy-to-girl relationships. Old men or adults might ask why these teenagers enter relationships at their young age. Because according to them, teenagers are not that matured yet to handle relaionships because adults think that teenagers' minds are still young an dseems to be limited only in playing games. They also think that early relationships may just result to heartaches in the end. These are just some of the reasons why some parents would not allow their teenager children to engage in early relationships not until they finish schooling. But do these parents know why nowadays, many teenagers have already engaged in relationships.


According to my survey, the reasons why teenagers engage in early relationships are curiosity, trend, inspiration, and LOVE.


Why curosity? Based on my experience, my parents used to tell me not to enter or engage in early relationships. According to them it may just ruin my life and schooling because relationship at my age seems to be careless and may later result to early pregnancy. But for me, their reasons are not enough to convince me. This became the reason for me to be curious. It pushed me to try what is really wrong in entering early relationship. After trying, I do not think I was doing the wrong thing.


Trend is also one of the reasons why teenagers nowadays are so hot in entering relationships. They tend to follow the trend. For example, in a clique of friends all your friends have already their boyfriends and girlfriends, because of this you become out of place sometimes so the thing you would possibly do is to find your own and partner so that you can also go with the flow.


Inspiration is also a reason for teenagers to engage in early relationships. For me this is true. I believe that the moment you would get a partner, a boyfriend, or a girlfriend you would really pursue yourself to be a better person. You would be limited only in doing good things. You could be good in your class. You could be an honor student if you want. All these you can do as long as you know how to handle a relationship. Because I know that each one in this world should have inspirations in life whom you can offer you success and earnings in life, who can pursue you to do your best for you to succeed.


LOVE is the major reason why people not only teenagers engage in relationship with the opposite sex. They tend to long people special to them. They can not stand the feeling of not seeing that person for just even a short period of time. They seem to care to that person. They long to see them everyday. This feeling is what you call love. But so much love, for me, may result to early responsibilities like pregnancy because I believe that in proving your love to a person you must have sex with him or her. I do not know if what others believe but these is my own perception.


Engaging in early relationship may come from different reasons but I hope that yuor reason would really be love.